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kriemhild-gretchen:

it’s funny how madoka thinks her pink ribbons are too flashy like girl your hair is fucking pink

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kylobe:

i just hope ppl and anons come away from this knowing that

• all-white headcanons are racist
• all-white headcanons are racist
• all-white headcanons are racist
• all-white headcanons are racist
• and not forgetting the big one: all-white headcanons are racist

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beyoncebeytwice:

magicconchshell:

wikihow is the most useless website ive ever seen in my life

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fuckyeahstimming:

realsocialskills:

Something that can happen in therapy for disabled kids is:

People hold out hope that the kid won’t be disabled anymore, when they grow up.

So they push the kid as hard as possible in childhood, and tell them (often without saying this explicitly) that if they just work hard, their body won’t be wrong anymore.

This doesn’t work.

People who are disabled as children are usually still disabled as adults. Even if the therapy helped them. Even if they gained new physical abilities. Even if they learned things from it they wouldn’t have learned without it.

Even if they learn to walk. Even if they learn to talk. No matter what other skills they acquire. Their body is probably going to stay very different from most other people’s bodies, and far from the cultural norm.

And… part of living well as a person with a disability is accepting the body and the brain that you have, and working with it rather than against it. 

Because you can’t live in an imaginary body; you can’t live in an abstraction. You have to live your own life, as you actually are. And sometimes that involves medical treatment, sometimes it involves equipment, sometimes it involved therapy - but always, it involves reality. You can’t willpower yourself into being someone else. 

Disabled kids tend to get taught the opposite message, because childhood therapy is usually cure-oriented even for conditions that aren’t anywhere close to curable. It’s about normalization, much more than functioning well.

Then they go through all manner of hell unlearning this once they’re old enough that everyone gives up on pretending that a cure is going to happen.

If you’re responsible to or for kids with disabilities, do what you can to protect them from this. Make sure they aren’t being pushed to hang their self-worth on accomplishing things that are physically impossible or implausible. Help them to understand hat their bodies aren’t wrong. Teach them that they already have lives worth living.

See also: Most Autistic people stim. A lot of ADHD folks, a lot of SPD folks, a lot of dyspraxic folks stim. (A lot of people who are/have one of these things are/have multiple.)

If you try to stop it, you are doing exactly this thing that you’re not supposed to do. We’re always going to have these things. Don’t worry about them.

unimpressed2chainz:

ppl be thinking redheads are some oppressed minority group

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fuckeverythingbecomeapirate:

“Any ideas for the new park sculpture?”

“How about a giant, metallic octopus attacking a rook?”

“Perfect.”

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weekendmom:

“dad where did u get that mug”

“my worlds greatest dad mug? long story”

*dad looks out the window as he vividly remembers his bloody victory in the 100 dad cage match at dadfights.com*

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superhighschoollevelmisandry:

*says hella problematic thing* *gets called out on it like u should* can’t have an opinion here on tumblr dot com

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ipoog:

incredible

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leftforbed:

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mcsnuggie:

true self control is waiting until the movie starts to eat your popcorn

why would the movie eat my popcorn

nevermind i get it

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